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A Rich Man Sent His Son To The Rural Area And This Is What Happened When His Son Returned Home

feature imageA really rich Chinese man sent his son to the rural area and wanted him to experience poverty. His son lived with a family in the rural area for three days, and when he returned home, he had the following conversation with his father.
The father asked, “so how was it?”
The son said “I think it’s alright.”
“What’s the difference between our home and their home?” the father asked.
“Wow! There are a lot of differences!” with excitement, the son continued,
“We have a dog at home, but they have four.
We have purified water in our swimming pool but they have a really big pond with fresh and clear water, there’s even fish in there!
There’re light bulbs in our garden while the moon and the stars shine brightly on their fields at night.
Our garden is limited by the walls, but theirs is limitless. Their garden is like extending to the edge of the sky.We listen to the CDs back home, yet they listen to the tweets of birds and other natural sounds.
Our house is surrounded by walls, but they always welcome friends so their door is always opened.
In the city, cell phones and computers connect us; there, people are connected closely with the nature and their families.”
The father was very surprised by what the son said. “Dad, thank you for letting me know how poor we actually are.” The son said.
“Many people are so poor that the only thing they have is money.” – Rodolfo Costa
Our lives, our happiness and the nature around us are things that money can’t buy. Why things that can be bought with money are more valuable than things that even money can’t buy?
When you start to appreciate the people around you and the things you have, you will stop chasing after the “rich lives” because you know you have everything you need.
If you are a rich person, ask yourself these questions, “am I becoming more and more disconnected with my friends and family, and with this world? Am I still wanting more for the sake of having more?”
The story is written by an unknown author. The Chinese version of it has been widely shared on the internet, and so I decided to translate it into English and let more readers know about this story. 

Building a perfect relationship with your in-laws

Yes! you are married to your husband, but in the African culture, you marry the man and his family.
You In-laws are a group of people that wield so much influence in the marriage.

Yes! you are married to your husband, but in the African culture, you marry the man and his family.
That does not mean that you should allow them trample on you or disrespect your desires and wishes.
1. Participate in Family Functions: Socialise with them and help organise social events. Do not avoid intentionally, any family event, especially when you are invited. They might take it as an insult.
2. No competitions: Do not try to go head to head in competition with your in-laws. It is not right to want to prove a point whenever they are around or they speak of their achievements.

3. Don’t report your Spouse to your in-laws: Your in-laws might likely be offended by your complaints. Always talk positively about your spouse. Compliment your in-laws on how well they brought their son or daughter up.
4. Learn and Accommodate their traditions: You cannot choose to be on your own. If your family has a culture, show interest by asking questions and learning about it. Learning about your spouse’s traditions is important. You don’t have to embrace them all as your own.
5. Set Healthy Boundaries: Talk to your spouse about any boundary to be set. Especially, when his or her parents come to visit.

There is no perfect husband or wife

Your understanding about marriage will change after watching this teaching.

Marriage is the coming together of two imperfect people. There are no perfect couples. All you have are people who work on their marriage to make it work.
Your understanding about marriage will change after watching this teaching.


12 inspiring quotes every parent needs to know

Ever feel burdened by the everyday loads? These 12 quotes will remind you why being a parent is the best job in the world.


  • 1. "The most precious jewels you will ever have around your neck are the arms of your children" -Unknown


  • 2. "Being a mother is the highest paying job in the world, since the payment is pure love" -Unknown


  • 3. "If you cant' do great things do small things in a great way" -Napoleon Hill


  • 4. "No language can express the power, and beauty, and heroism, and majesty of a mother's love. -Edwin Hubbell Chapin


  • 5. "Any man can be a father. It takes someone special to be a dad" -Unknown

  • 6. "It takes a big heart to help shape little hands" -Unknown


  • 7. "A mother's greatest masterpiece is her children" -Unknown


  • 8. "A truly rich man is one whose children run into his arms, even when his hands are empty" -Mark Bradford


  • 9. "Nothing you do for children is ever wasted" -Garrison Keillor


  • 10. "Don't become so concerned with raising a good kid that you forget you already have one" -Glennon Melton


  • 11. "Parenting isn't a practice. It's a daily learning experience. -Unknown


  • 12. "Every child needs to be loved in gigantic quantities and with unbelievable quality" -Daniel Mackler


The controversial marriage tip that will fix your whole family

In my home, there are many rules. My children may not remember (let alone abide by) all of them. But there is one that is of utmost importance to me and my husband. And to make sure our kids don't forget it, my husband asks our kids — almost daily — who he loves most. In unison, they all proclaim, "Mom!"
This is not just something that is said. My children see this every day as I'm the first one my husband greets with a warm embrace after a long day at work — more affection than their little eyes can take. They see this when my husband supports my hobbies and ideas. And they see it when he respects my role as a woman, wife and mother.
Of course, this effort needs to go both ways. If I want a strong, fulfilling marriage, I need to show my husband the love and respect he indefinitely deserves in return.
But to have happy and successful marriages, we must put God first — even before our spouses. The family is God's ultimate design, his greatest creation. If we want to have the kind of marriages we are destined for, we must make God our highest priority. Marriages can't withstand the inevitable storms of life if we don't nurture them by following the principles God has given us.
You may argue that the same could be said of children, that we should put our children before our spouses — or at least rank them equally. But a marriage that does not have a stable foundation creates maladjusted children who suffer through their parents' issues — or worse, divorce. Marriage is the establishment that brings about divine children. Children are not the establishment that bring about a divine marriage.
The first step in creating a godly marriage is cleaving to your husband or wife. When I was a newlywed, amidst one of my first marital arguments, the first place I turned to vent was my parents. Huge mistake. Parents are great for advice and unconditional love, but they are not to interfere with the intimate relationship of your marriage. Once you make your vows, you immediately cross the bridge from solely honoring your parents to primarily honoring your spouse.
Many may think of these principles completely differently. Obviously, children (especially in their younger years) have greater physical demands, and capable adults must meet needs for food, shelter and other immediate obligations. But as these happy and healthy children mature, their greatest need is a happy and healthy marriage between their parents — a strong family bond in which to take refuge when trials and tribulations come their way.
Believe it or not, it's healthy and even necessary for your children to know that they come second to your spouse. And it's vital for them to know that both you and your spouse base your relationship on promises you've made with God. One of the highest representations of the image of God is a husband and wife serving each other.
God, spouse, children — in that order. Period.


10 things parents wish they knew before becoming a parent

Preparing for parenthood may make you want to spend hours reading books and experts' advice about the best parenting practices.
But sometimes the best advice comes from parents.
In a video made by ExtraSpace Storage, new parents unveiled the most important pieces of advice about becoming a parent. The advice ranges from creating a schedule and saving your child’s clothes to making memories.
But the number one piece of advice from the video: “Be prepared to love something more than you ever thought you could because you haven’t. You haven’t yet.”
See the other nine tips in the video below:


Met with criticism with baby 4 on the way, these parents came up with an epic parody response

If you're a mom of more than two kids, you may have been met with some opposition when you announced subsequent pregnancies. Funny, it's not anyone else's business. It's between you and your spouse, yet people still think it's OK to express their opinions on your family size.
That's what happened to Chad and Andrea Chapman when they announced the impending arrival of their fourth child. With their first pregnancy — twin girls — and their second pregnancy, a boy, friends and family were happy for them. 
"Nobody was excited. I think we went past what everyone's idea for our family was," Andrea stated in an article. "For some reason, four is like this odd number in our culture today, and it's not celebrated the same way."
They responded like completely cool parents do —with a parody. "We Can't Stop...Having Babies." The video displays typical antics that families with young children experience — messes, chaos and lots of fun. The best part, it sends a clear message to the judgmental crowd: Our family size is our decision and our business. Not yours.
A couple of great lines from the parody include:
"Can't you see it's we who'll be up all night? Can't you see it's we who love this life?"
"It's my body, I can grow who I want to."
The parody blends humor, attitude and their hard-hitting message of freedom to procreate.
Many people, family, friends and strangers, think it's OK to make comments about or pass judgments on families with multiple children. Unless it's kind, it's probably best to keep it to yourself. Read these sarcastic responses to strangers' intrusive comments to moms with multiple children.
Besides family size being a personal decision to make with your spouse, read these "10 benefits from growing up in a large family."
On the flip-side, it's also your choice if you only want one or two kids, or none at all. Just try to make your own choices while respecting the decisions of others.
Interested in learning more about how to be a great parent?

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