Why Women Should Know That Not All Men Are the Same

Ask any woman who has had some bad relationship, her opinion about all men. I’m sure you will not hear anything positive about men. Some ladies who have experienced bad dating or bad relationship will tell you, that all men are goat.. What!. And they are ready to prove that to you if you care to see the proven fact in their possession.

But can this be true that all men are the same? Obviously not, all men are not the same, although it is often said that, there are many boyfriends material and very few husbands material. Most guys are just out there to test the water but that doesn’t mean all of the guys are the same unserious set of human being, which wanted to just be in relationship and see how it looks like.

But come to think of it, is it not the ladies themselves that love to put themselves into the hand of bad guys because they are more romantic and straight to the point? But the end result is not always palatable.I’m not here to defend guys; I’m just stating the obvious. Of course, not all relationship will lead tomarriage, there will be disagreement along the way and if it cannot be resolved, partner may go separate way. But one things is sure here, that relationship that doesn’t work out, each person involves has learnt something great that will help him/her in the next relationship. This is because, the not too good relationship has taught them what they don’t want in relationship and that was why the relationship cannot continue, they don’t get what they desire in it.

So, women shouldn’t judge all men based on what they have experienced in the hands of some few men. There are many great men out there waiting for them, and if you find any married women and ask them the same question of why do women consider all men to be the same. They will want to support the assumption but will still go ahead and tell you that, their husband is exceptional among all men. That’s a prove that all men are not the same.

The bottom line is that, the wrong guy can cause a woman to hate all men…However the RIGHT man can show her not all men are the same

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Filed Under: fact, Lifestyle Tuesday, 5 May 2015 No Comments

How To Tell If Someone Is Lying To You

Body language is a serious study and some specialists in this field even help with police investigations. So what are the signs that you should look out for if you think someone is lying to you?  

They touch their nose and mouth a lot
When people lie adrenalin rushes to their noses, causing an imperceptible swelling of the capillaries. This is called ‘the Pinocchio effect’ and it causes itchiness, so fibbers rub their noses while they are speaking.

Another theory suggests that liars cover their mouths to prevent the lie from escaping. Children in particular try to cover their mouths when lying.

It is in the eyes
Liars try to appear as if they are telling the truth by using the appropriate facial expression. People who are genuinely happy or sad use their whole face to smile or frown. Liars only use their mouth. If a facial expression does not extend from the mouth up the cheeks and to the eyes, chances are it is not genuine.

Contrary to what many people think, liars do make eye contact. In fact, they make too much eye contact. People who are telling the truth may look around to help them think, or get distracted by objects. Liars fix their gaze on you in an attempt to appear to be honest. Looking to one side while you are speaking is also not necessarily an indication of lying.

Other eye tells are frequent or longer-than-usual blinking.

Watch out for sweating
Measuring sweat is actually one of the ways that a polygraph assesses whether criminals are lying. While these machines are sensitive enough to pick up minute changes in skin moisture, you can look out for visible signs of sweating and become a human polygraph. Just remember to take the weather into account before you make any accusations!

Follow their fidgeting
Fidgeting is a sign of nervous energy. Liars often play with objects, their clothes, their own hands or anything else that they can get hold of to distract themselves from the words coming out of their mouth.

Just remember that fidgeting is a sign of any kind of nervous energy. If the person is shy or uncomfortable, it’s not necessarily a sign that they are lying.

Their bodies are stiff
When people are conversing naturally, their arms, legs and heads are relaxed. People who are lying will appear stiffer. They might also tip their bodies away from you, rather than towards you. Their responses might also be slower and stilted rather than natural and flowing because they are taking the time to think of an appropriate response.

Final words 
These are just some of the tells that can indicate to a listener that a person might be lying. By becoming sensitive to these signs you can become a more astute judge of character. But remember, for putting on a show or hunting down the office thief, lie detection is best left to the professionals!

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4 tips to make friends with anyone

• Will Rogers once said: "I never met a man that I didn't like." He was a great example of how we can be friends with everyone we meet, but it might be more difficult than it looks. We are all different people with distinct talents and abilities. Not everyone makes friends easily. Here are a few tips to help:

• 1. Praise and Promote

  No one likes negativity. Switch to the positive when you find yourself critical of someone.Compliments should be sincere. Politeness goes a long way so make sure to include thank you, you're welcome, good morning and good night. You never know what people are experiencing in their lives, so be encouraging. Comments like "You really impress me" or It's so good to see you" are some of the phrases that the happiest people say everyday,welcoming words to anyone's ears. Remember that words are important to everyone so keep them positive.

• 2. Ask questions

  Asking leading questions like, "What do you do for fun?" or "What's your favorite movie?" can get a conversation going. Sincerely ask and then really listen. Be genuinely interested in others, because people are important. There are natural questions you can pull from every situation, such as "How do you know the people here?" at a party or "Where are you originally from?" while talking to someone in the park.
  "Who is the most interesting person you've met?" or "Where would you love to visit if you had the time?" are two questions to start a conversation. Awkwardness falls away and a friendship starts to evolve as you get a conversation going.

• 3. Remember the face

  When you talk with someone, notice their face. Compliment them sincerely. Do you like their smile? Their eyes? The way they carry themselves? Their height? Their outfit? Sincere compliments can put people at ease, and open up conversation. Keeping eye contact with that person when he or she is speaking tells them they are important enough for your full attention.

• 4. Call by name

  People like hearing their name, so remember and use it in conversation. Remembering a nickname is an additional help. It makes the connection more personal. If you have a hard time remembering names, try connecting the name with a certain characteristic or memory with that name to help you not forget.
  These four tips take a certain amount of effort but pay off as you learn the art of making friends. This is an attribute that makes starting a new job or moving into a new neighborhood less stressful. Everyone loves to be appreciated. These skills can help others feel better about themselves, and help you be a better friend.

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Filed Under: fact, friendship Thursday, 23 April 2015 No Comments

50 things money can't buy

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  The Beatles sang about love they couldn't buy, and Aladdin's genie lectured about wishes you couldn't wish for. There are a lot of things in this world money can buy if you're willing to spend all your time earning that money. But so many more things can only be experienced once. There are so many opportunities that must be seized immediately because they'll never chance your way again. This list should get you thinking about all the things money can't buy, despite commercials, billboards and advertisements that would like to convince us there is no such thing as an "unpurchaseable" item.

• 1. More time with the ones we love

• 2. The love of those people

• 3. Loyalty (cat, dog, human, or otherwise)

• 4. Missed cuddles

• 5. More wishes

• 6. Kisses (the true love kind)

• 7. Youth

• 8. More money

• 9. Your mom's homemade pie, cake or cookies

• 10. The secret recipes for said confections

• 11. Respect

• 12. Trust, once it's lost

• 13. Hope, when times are hopeless

• 14. Faith you're not willing to work for

• 15. Freedom from worry or fear

• 16. Freedom for citizens of oppressed nations

• 17. World peace

• 18. Memories once they're forgotten

• 19. The stories you never asked your grandpa to tell

• 20. The times you didn't hold and hug your child

• 21. A redo of past mistakes

• 22. A redo of missed opportunities

• 23. Good health when you don't treat your body well

• 24. The time you waste on watching mindless TV

• 25. The time you should have been exercising but ate a Twinkie instead

• 26. The time you should have napped when the baby was napping

• 27. A baby who sleeps through the night

• 28. A toddler who isn't picky

• 29. A child who never fights with his or her siblings

• 30. The beloved dog that passed when you were 12

• 31. The darling lap cat that disappeared that one summer

• 32. Inner beauty

• 33. A good sense of humor

• 34. The ability to see past others' faults

• 35. The ability to see past your own faults

• 36. The kind of friends who never desert you

• 37. The kind of family that always stands by you

• 38. The first time you read your favorite book

• 39. The first time you see your favorite movie

• 40. Education you didn't get

• 41. Beautiful vistas you didn't see

• 42. Trips you didn't take

• 43. A warm summer day spent picnicking with your family

• 44. An autumn afternoon jumping in colorful piles of leaves

• 45. A winter morning when you make the first footprints in the snow

• 46. A spring night spent stargazing at a sky close enough to touch

• 47. The moments that take your breath away

• 48. The moments that make your heartbeat stutter

• 49. The opinion you didn't stand up for

• 50. The love you didn't risk

  Money is indispensable. That's something we can't deny. It's necessary in order to survive this world. But sometimes we get too focused on surviving, and we forget about enjoying. After all, wasn't life meant to be celebrated, not just endured? What else would you add to this list?

CREDIT:familyshare

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Filed Under: fact, Inspirational, money Sunday, 19 April 2015 No Comments